Whats up Life Learners! Today, I want to talk about something we all desire deep down: being cool, being liked, and being loved. It’s a universal longing, but have you ever really thought about what it takes to achieve it? Well, let me tell you right now—it’s not about the material stuff, the cars, the house, the vacations, the clothes, or even the money. None of that really matters.
So, what’s the secret sauce to becoming the person you’ve always wanted to be and getting the admiration and love you crave? : Let me give the game away: it all starts with YOU.
Yes, you heard me right. It’s all about You—your true self, your authenticity, and your unique abilities. The real key to being “cool” or being genuinely liked and loved has absolutely nothing to do with what others think about you. It’s all about how you see yourself.
Now, here’s the kicker: the only way to feel truly cool, confident, and comfortable in your own skin is by putting in the effort to become the most amazing version of yourself. No excuses, no faking it, just being you, authenticallyreal.
You can’t just pretend to be someone you’re not and expect the world to fall at your feet. Nope, that won’t cut it. You’ve got to intentionally craft yourself into the person you were meant to be. It’s not just a gift to yourself; it’s the most incredible gift you can give to the world.
Here’s a little roadmap to help you get there (or to inspire others in your own unique way):
- Discover Your True Self: Spend some time reflecting on who you really are, what you’re passionate about, and what makes you tick. Embrace your quirks and idiosyncrasies, because those are what make you unique.
- Set Authentic Goals: Once you know who you are, set goals that align with your values, vision, and aspirations. These goals should excite you and push you to grow, remember that.
- Invest in Self-Improvement: Dedicate time and effort to developing your skills and talents. Whether it’s learning a new skill, gaining knowledge, or improving your physical fitness, growth is essential. Read Books!
- Be Kind and Empathetic: Being a better version of yourself also means being a better person to others. Practice kindness, empathy, and compassion in your interactions with people. some us may struggle here. If this is you, winning this battle is imperative!
- Stay Resilient: Life is full of challenges, but don’t let setbacks define you. Embrace failures as opportunities to learn and grow stronger. One of the greatest principles of living full, and dying empty!
- Celebrate Your Wins: Acknowledge and celebrate your successes, no matter how small they may seem. It’s essential to recognize your progress. Recognize!
- Inspire Others: As you become the best version of yourself, you’ll naturally inspire others to do the same. Share your journey, and encourage those around you to pursue their passions and dreams. At times, some wont like to hear your winning vibe, keep pressing on and representing who you are, full-time!
In the end, remember that being cool, liked, and loved isn’t about a facade you put on or what others think of you. It’s about who you genuinely are and the positive impact you can have on the world when you choose to be your most authentic self. So go ahead, create yourself intentionally, and be the badass mother#%*&@ you were always meant to be. The world will thank you for it!
-Coach Salazar
